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Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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ilmucche posted:

Isn't staying in a bad situation trying to get your money out exactly what the sunk cost fallacy describes?

the fallacy is the idea that you can get already spent costs "back" by spending more. so it depends on how her alleged investment is tangled up with her husband. If it's just an issue of waiting for something to vest or mature, then I don't think it would be a sunk cost fallacy. If it depends on husband actually running the business well, the it's probably the fallacy.

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Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Benagain posted:

No one's defending cheaters, I was responding to the thing from like three pages ago? The dude who lived with a woman he hated for 16 years and somehow she thought they were in a relationship and he thought they were just raising their child together and the second the kid hit 18 he divorced her. It always weirds me out that people think that's like, admirable instead of horrifying. If you hate someone don't raise a child with them.

if you want to raise your kid(s) and don't want to take the drastic step of getting full custody and cutting off access, you kinda do have to raise them together, in one form or another

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Miss posted:

Me [21 M] with my g/f [20F] 4 years, she has joined a cult and its tearing us apart.

This is guerrilla marketing for the reboot of The Craft until proven otherwise. I'm okay with that though.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Evil Willow posted:

My (39 F) fiance (21 M) keeps skateboarding IN the house and it is causing tension.

i really want to see this zany comedy movie tho with the guy older or the woman younger or something other than a romantic relationship

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA? I defaced a kids cereal box and my wife is angry?




late reply, but having that sort of kiddy cereal in your house if you don't have kids is more embarrassing than any edits to it. should be hiding it regardless.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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MarcusSA posted:

Ok grandpa.

compshateme85 posted:

Coco puffs are amazing and you can go gently caress yourself.

just eat candy for breakfast you cowards

Puppy Time posted:


Bro sometimes you just want bread candy

:hmmyes:

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Grape posted:

They have tons of goofy sugar crap in Japan too, hth.

yeah, and folks are getting fatter. it's still night and day, tho, and a huge source of reverse culture shock whenever i'm stateside.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Breetai posted:

Just sidle up to her and whisper: "So you want to get out of your responsibilities rather than facing your fears? GUESS WHAT YOU'RE LIVING IN?" :v:

this, and always time it so 2001's Bubble Boy or that episode of Seinfeld is playing on the TV when they walk into the room, and set your phone ringtone to "Tiny Bubbles"

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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AreWeDrunkYet posted:

Language evolves, but giving a tour guide or translator poo poo over an edge case that's incorrect outside of that specific context when English isn't their primary language in the first place is a jerk move. It's just a situation that could have been avoided altogether if the language went in the direction of a dedicated set of pronouns instead of repurposing existing ones contextually.

"Same word means different things at different times" is one of those things that can make languages tricky for people learning them.

dunno about the queen's, but "they" has been used for singulars in US English forever

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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teen witch posted:

loving accursed forum won’t let me add an apostrophe in TYOOL 2020

But nonetheless, you done did it

an actual apostrophe (') instead of the "smart" quotes might work

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Invisible Clergy posted:


AITA for complaining about wasted heat when my wife airs out the apartment in the winter?

If your wife wants to heat the whole world, make her pay the heating bill. Somehow, I think she'll quit doing this pretty soon once she sees how much it costs.

the air doesn't take all that long or that much energy to heat up again, guy is wrong

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Cowslips Warren posted:

My (19F) boyfriend (34m) didn't tell me about him having children

guessed 19 and 36. this thread has been very educational

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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betaraywil posted:

Re:


May I present...

Reddit Weirdos and Porn: An :effort:post

~~great post~~

Is there some reason the front page can't have articles like this? Just a whole series of "effort posts"?

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Pirate Radar posted:

Has the new ownership done much with the front page? I haven’t been keeping track.

No, but some article that seemingly got submitted ages ago did pop up earlier this week. Looks like it's gone now, so at least J. Yospos has the keys to the CMS.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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I do think the freezer beer situation did merit escalation, but i'm not unsympathetic to the plight of the shift working guy. he might be a man-child that thought he was marrying a wife-mom, but it seems as likely to me that his current lifestyle is what is impairing his ability to deal with his own messes. i do think he's gotta stop putting beers in the freezer. seems like this could be solved by mutual apologies for their transgressions and one of those beer mugs you can throw in the freezer to make it really cold.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Castaign posted:

If he's actually just doing a $10 dose of mushrooms every 3-4 months instead of using daily antidepressants and anti-anxiety meds (likely benzos or something else that will absolutely mess your poo poo up REAL good), he's probably fine.

If we're going to assume (as some posters are) that he's a junkie burnout who is also regularly doing coke and adderall, and then *checks notes* uh, coming down with loving ketamine, then that's definitely a problem.

A problem that requires us to make some very ungenerous assumptions. Hey, shouldn't we maybe consider that the asexual kid who is creeped out about mom and dad's 24/7 BDSM lifestyle is actually schizophrenic and just hallucinated all that poo poo?

Jesus, goons.

if he's asking about doing drugs while being responsible for a toddler on reddit i have to assume he's not some paragon of moderation and restraint

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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if we take shroom dad at his word, sure, he should get his time to trip and ward off depression. presuming he's got this therapy down, seems like his issue is with establishing an understanding with his wife.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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datajugend posted:

5 hours sounds like alot for something called microdosing, but i have no clue about shrooms or acid so maybe thats a normal amount of time.

But yeah i dont think i would be very understanding if my partner wanted the day off parenting duties to trip, it would suck if something real happened

eh, then just think of it as a business trip :grin:

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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r/relationships: deadbeats & greggnog & piss, oh my!

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Midnight Voyager posted:

...A Bible name is a "black" name??? Like white people haven't named their kids Bible names for forever?

by the metric of who the most famous Isaiah of the moment (Thomas) is i suppose, but yeah i'd guess mormon before black

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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r/relationships: We didn't do our annual X-mas day morning sex

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Evil Willow posted:

AITA for refusing to eat rice cooked by my fiancé?


r/relationships: God I hate tomato.

feel like the world loses a lot of value when a spanish man that likes to make passable paella marries someone who hates eating it

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Cowslips Warren posted:

AITA for charging a minor?
--snip--
Everyone keeps telling me to charge them.


:argh:

quote:

And I'm going to.

Oh. YTA for this head fake.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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teen witch posted:


OP is also talking about when Costco was Price Club, something even I forgot.

Costco was always Costco in a lot of places, like the Seattle area. There was a period of time where it rebranded to "Price Costco" after the Price Club merger, tho.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Fruits of the sea posted:

Yeah, I don't see why this has to be a political thing. I was always under the impression that the modern folk medicine is an amalgam of a whole bunch of traditions from different eras and regions. It's as valid as whatever was being practiced before. If there's anything to be upset about, it's that the origins are being left out of history books in some cases which kinda sucks from an anthropological perspective.

TCM:Chinese Folk Medicine::Square Dancing:American Folk Dance

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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i wear stretchy jeans. they're probably super trashy, but they're comfy

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Scaevolus posted:

My (23M) girlfriend (18F) got a tattoo that says ‘property of Tony’ after three months

it's cool, she can just get james gandolfini's face added below it and this little bit of youthful indiscretion will be made good

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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i think it's okay to put limits on teens' phone access like that if you as the parent impose the same limits on your usage. if the rationale is that it's good sleep hygiene to not use your screens after a certain time, then there should be no issue with everyone limiting their access for better sleep.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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do it on my face posted:

"Hey, this thing you're proposing to do? Don't do it. I'm serious."

"You're not the boss of me."

"... I'm literally your boss."

"We'll see about that."

big peggy hill energy

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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if you give your kids "interesting" names you run the risk of their name being the most remarkable thing about them. that's why my kids have boring-rear end names.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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FoolyCharged posted:

Yeah, "don't let stuff you can't can't change get to you" is pretty good life advice. It's just that literally everything else around it in that guy's narrative makes me think he's a colossal rear end in a top hat anyway and even a stopped clock.

it's the classic mistake of trying to solve someone's problems when they're complaining when you're just supposed to listen and empathize and only offer advice when it's asked for. he's the rear end in a top hat for giving into the narcissistic impulse of offering up an unwanted "solution". just loving listen, fellas.

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Ziv Zulander posted:

E: I left a $15 tip on a $60 bill. Fight me

was that the bill before or after tax?

Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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Zulily Zoetrope posted:

Just to clarify, this was not an actual complaint; I was trying to make an ill-phrased Florida joke.

imho it was a good joke. had to reread the post to make sure i wasn't getting wooshed, but once i did this was me:

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Mr. Fix It
Oct 26, 2000

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i think by saying "i never should have hired her" he's telling on himself in a different way: he absolutely saw hiring her as the first step to taking advantage of her sexually

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