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WoodrowSkillson posted:that just loving sucks, what a loving waste Shoot the dude into the sun, give his son to someone who actually wants a kid. Reminds of when I worked in a copy center, and the dude had a ton of receipts and poo poo he needed copied. He also needed a therapist, but as I was helping him do the work, he let it all out for me. That he, a 60ish year old man, fell in love with a beautiful young lady from an Asian country (that's what he said), and he brought her over here, married her, brought her family over here too, and she, a beautiful lady in her mid 20's...proceeded to cheat on him, have a child with the affair partner, a dude her own age, and he felt so used and trapped because he was so in love, how could she use him like so? And all I could think was, dude, she is young enough to be your granddaughter, you tell me. AITA for saying I don’t see girls as competition? quote:I was with this girl I was talking to and a group of friends today. Girl in question was talking about this really hot girl she saw on the train. I was listening, and I would say if she described a hot guy I’d be annoyed and a bit jealous but I didn’t care since it was a girl. My reasoning is, if it was a guy I would start sizing myself up mentally against him, to see who’s more attractive as per what I know about her type— she likes tall guys with nice hair and strong jawlines so who is taller, has nicer hair and a more prominent jawline, etc? But girls have different standards, so it’s harder to compare, like apples and oranges. It was like if I ran track and was the best on my team and I was asked if I was better than my school’s best basketball player— like by what metrics? The two things are measured totally differently. So in the realm of attractiveness alone, it’s a lot more difficult to be put head to head and come out lacking.
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Hughlander posted:I need a cigarette after that one... I read only the updates and felt a limited sympathy for the guy, then I went back and read the OP and just like that it went away.
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poo poo is just depressing. Nuking your entire life to plow a 25 year old who was just trying to gold dig. gently caress. How do you resist the urge to just smoke the ol' Smith & Wesson after that?
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Dr. Video Games 0135 posted:poo poo is just depressing. Nuking your entire life to plow a 25 year old who was just trying to gold dig. gently caress. How do you resist the urge to just smoke the ol' Smith & Wesson after that? Seems like he's mostly living for his son at this point. Poor kid, none of this was his fault.
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Dr. Video Games 0135 posted:poo poo is just depressing. Nuking your entire life to plow a 25 year old who was just trying to gold dig. gently caress. How do you resist the urge to just smoke the ol' Smith & Wesson after that? "the funding dried up" for his passion project business can't blame him for that. I really wonder what the business was exactly. There's even chance it was something insanely dumb like trying to buy and then resell sports memorabilia at a stupid high mark-up.
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AITA for asking for an apology when MIL was caught lying about me to family?quote:MIL and I used to have a bad relationship. I’d say it’s neutral now. We don’t really see her much but we don’t fight anymore.
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Skutter posted:I have not, but I'm getting sick of the "my MIL hates me and she is a crazy insane person who hates us". They usually have the following characteristics: Content so I don't get dinged: AITA for not letting my cousin live with me? quote:My cousin wanted to live with me for free while he did his unpaid internship. My wife said no. She works from home, and we have two kids, 2 and 4. My wife hired a housekeeper to help out every other week. It’s been a huge help on our work schedule.
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for making a bake shop re-do my order multiple times? Sounds like OP got some bad ombres.
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pentyne posted:"the funding dried up" for his passion project business can't blame him for that. Either dog heelies or soup tubes.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for pricing my custom cakes so high, just to discourage people from asking me for cakes. From a while ago, but recently I found Can You Sew This For Me? on Instagram and it's a great thing to get mad at.
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trickybiscuits posted:From a while ago, but recently I found Can You Sew This For Me? on Instagram and it's a great thing to get mad at. Ok the one where she gets hired to make an exact duplicate dress because the fit was perfect and then it turns out the person who owned the dress, has not, in fact, fit inside it for years was just the little tale I needed.
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Cowslips Warren posted:Shoot the dude into the sun, give his son to someone who actually wants a kid. I feel lucky in comparison, last time a guy just needed someone to talk to around me he told me about how he used to abuse meth and cocaine, knew just doing talk therapy wouldn't stick so he took over a friend's basement. Boarded up the windows, locked the doors and said "whatever you hear, whatever I say, don't let me out for a week." Apparently it worked.
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Invisible Clergy posted:Sounds like OP got some bad ombres. Are you a bad enough ombre to berth ell president?
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Hughlander posted:How can I manage the resentment my girlfriend (25F) and I (42M) have for each other? Same, and I don’t even smoke. At least he seems to realise what a shithead he’s been.
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Bruceski posted:I feel lucky in comparison, last time a guy just needed someone to talk to around me he told me about how he used to abuse meth and cocaine, knew just doing talk therapy wouldn't stick so he took over a friend's basement. Boarded up the windows, locked the doors and said "whatever you hear, whatever I say, don't let me out for a week." Apparently it worked. the Sickboy method. not ideal if you're lacking in moral fibre
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pentyne posted:"the funding dried up" for his passion project business can't blame him for that. Dog wheelies eb Goddamn it Credulous Skeptic fucked around with this message at 05:23 on Jan 27, 2022 |
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coronatae posted:I went to a funeral that featured a Christian mime performance but the deceased had been really into Christian mime How are Christian mimes different from other mimes? coronatae posted:I want to do that thing where you boil pasta in wine, it was very fashionable for a while. Cost Plus World Market used to have wine flavored/infused pasta.
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ScienceSeagull posted:How are Christian mimes different from other mimes? Way more t posing.
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ScienceSeagull posted:How are Christian mimes different from other mimes? They get stuck in a glass tomb
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A guy I am seeing is playing mental games on purpose.quote:I (30F) saw a group text between him(41M) and his guy friends basically saying that you have to damage a woman’s self esteem to keep them in line. I knew I wasn’t crazy when I felt he was ignoring me on purpose or negging when I know I’m a beautiful woman. It was to purposely hurt me. Of course I’m leaving him but I want him to hurt a bit before & after I go so he knows not to do this to another woman. Any ideas? I was going to get him to take me on a hefty shopping spree, then end things kindly w a smile on my face.
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Mx. posted:A guy I am seeing is playing mental games on purpose. Sounds like they're both perfect for eachother
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Mx. posted:A guy I am seeing is playing mental games on purpose. Seems like a great way to cement all this guy’s toxic ideas and redpill him for good
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I think a guy that's 41 and doing this stuff is already redpilled plenty.
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Mx. posted:A guy I am seeing is playing mental games on purpose. Sounds like MRA / incel / <x>pill bait. But then you see people post poo poo like this
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trickybiscuits posted:From a while ago, but recently I found Can You Sew This For Me? on Instagram and it's a great thing to get mad at. Best response in there: "People die from exposure."
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AITA for not consulting my GF on a “big” decision?quote:So I (29M) own my house and my girlfriend of 2 years Molly (28F) stays over frequently. So our situation is that molly doesn’t like her apartment so she stays most of the week at my house. I’m cool with it as I love having her around obviously. I pay for all the bills and have never asked molly to contribute. She does buy groceries for us and will buy crafty items for the house. But she’s never been asked financially to contribute as she still has her own apartment she stays at about once or twice a week. I’d say the cooking and cleaning is split at my place pretty fair with us each doing about 50/50. We haven’t discussed moving in together or anything like that.
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Hughlander posted:How can I manage the resentment my girlfriend (25F) and I (42M) have for each other? No sympathy for this idiot. There is no such thing as babytrapping, men are responsible for their side of birth control. Wrap it up, affairalailures!
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therobit posted:AITA for not consulting my GF on a “big” decision?
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I think an AI wrote this one... AITA for telling my friend exactly why I don’t want her alone with my boyfriend? quote:I (19f) have friends who are a married couple, Jay(19f) and Emily(19f). They are a polyamory couple and they have an open relationship, so they can be with who they please. Now, Jay, likes to be with committed men. She’s been with many, saying she loves knowing she can get any man she wants and they’ll always choose her. She even went as far as to get one of them to leave his wife for her, then dumped him saying she never wanted anything serious!! Her wife tells her it’s disgusting to be with a married man especially since none of them have open relationships.
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drat, she's gonna do everything in her power to try to gently caress that shut in goon
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AITA for refusing to give my unborn son my husband's last name? quote:Hello. Reddit decreed this woman an rear end in a top hat because she AGREED, you can't CHANGE YOUR MIND about something, that's BAD!
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Hughlander posted:I think an AI wrote this one... don't have sex with my bf who's mentally a child is p reasonable i guess (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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I find life is a lot easier when you eliminate all the messy drama lovers from your social group. Here's my life experience 19f.
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Metis of the Hallways posted:AITA for refusing to give my unborn son my husband's last name? What the heck are you talking about? She can change her mind, but she's still an absolute rear end in a top hat for doing so when she agreed something else. Do you really think that it's impossible that breaking a prior agreement is an rear end in a top hat thing to do?
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Malachite_Dragon posted:If you don't live there, you don't get a say No, not even if you stay there so often you 'might as well' live there- if you haven't officially moved in, it doesn't mean poo poo. naw the mom is the one with the right judgment dude was entirely within his rights to do it, but is also an idiot
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keep punching joe posted:I find life is a lot easier when you eliminate all the messy drama lovers from your social group. Here's my life experience 19f. I'd love to hear more about your life experience, but preferably how it only affects your gym routine to make sure it really resonates
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Walh Hara posted:What the heck are you talking about? She can change her mind, but she's still an absolute rear end in a top hat for doing so when she agreed something else. Do you really think that it's impossible that breaking a prior agreement is an rear end in a top hat thing to do? So she can't change her mind, is what you're saying?
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Hughlander posted:I think an AI wrote this one... Seems like a rare case of a poly/open relationship working when it probably shouldn't. How can you know your wife makes a habit of deliberately breaking up couples, be against it, and just leave it at that?
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Walh Hara posted:What the heck are you talking about? She can change her mind, but she's still an absolute rear end in a top hat for doing so when she agreed something else. Do you really think that it's impossible that breaking a prior agreement is an rear end in a top hat thing to do? Changing your mind about something and then discussing it with the other party before the event takes place is difficult but it's what adults do. Here's what assholes do: Wait until the child is born, then give it the name you want without warning Never say anything and let the "hidden" resentment fester for years Demand that nobody is allowed to change their mind about anything ever once they have spoken their thoughts
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Look, this is not difficult: Can she change her mind? Yes, she can. Is her husband justified in saying that she broke her word? Yes, obviously. She can change her mind, but she shouldn't be surprised that her husband considers her an rear end in a top hat for doing so. edit: to be clear, discussing this now can be both: a good thing to do, and an rear end in a top hat thing to do, at the same time. But in that case she's the rear end in a top hat for agreeing to something that she knew he found important when in fact she did not agree with it. Walh Hara fucked around with this message at 11:13 on Jan 27, 2022 |
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